without feeling a little bit of shame.
But you desire to be married.
You deeply want it. And I want to be the person who tells you, that's okay.
I'm Tash. I spent years in a waiting season, saying all the right things. "I'm just trusting God. If it happens, it happens."
And I meant it. Partly.
But underneath it there was a desire so loud I couldn't hear anything else, and I wasn't telling a soul about it. I definitely wasn't being honest with God.
Almost three years into marriage now, I've realized that almost everything I believed about waiting was wrong. So I wrote it all down for you.
Start here. It's five minutes.
The five things I wish somebody had told me while I was waiting. No formula, no ninety day plan, and no telling you to just be content.
New conversations every week about singleness, dating, marriage, healing, and becoming the woman God has called you to be.
FOR THE CHRISTIAN SINGLE WOMAN WHO IS TIRED OF WAITING.
The Waiting Season Interactive Guide
5 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me While I Was Waiting for Marriage.
This is not a guide about how to get a husband. I don't have a formula and anybody selling you one isn't being honest with you.
It's a guide about what the waiting season is actually for, how to be honest with the desire you have and, how to steward this important season well as a wife in waiting.
What's inside
- How to be honest about what you want, with God and yourself, without shame
- What settling actually costs you: your standard, your peace, and the people who could hold you accountable
- How to recognize healthy love when chaos is what you were trained to expect
- What surrender really looks like on the ordinary day it comes back
- What to build in yourself now, so marriage doesn't reveal what you never learned
- A 20-question reflective checklist that maps to the five things, so you can actually work through them
- A readiness self-assessment across your spiritual life, your emotions, your relationships, and the practical things like money and running a home, so you can rate where you are and see what to grow next
The guide plus 5 companion videos. 33 pages. Instant download.
THE NEXT STEP
A REFLECTIVE GUIDE
The Christian Dating Questions Guide
How to Discern if He is The Right Man, Before You Say Yes.
Most women meet somebody promising and then spend six months finding out what they could have learned in three conversations.
This is every question I actually asked, organized into 16 categories, with the reason each one matters and what you should be listening for underneath the answer. There's space to write in it, because you're going to want to come back to what he said.
What's inside
- Exactly what to ask across 16 areas of his life, from faith and money to conflict, family, intimacy, and what he expects a wife to be
- The questions I asked before we got engaged, plus the ones I would only know to ask now, after almost three years of marriage
- What each answer actually reveals, so you can tell a real answer from a rehearsed one
- Two scenarios to put in front of him and watch how he handles being slightly in the wrong
- What to ask the people who know him, and the one question that gets the truth
- Room to write after every single question, so you remember what he said and what you noticed
- A page to write your non-negotiables and date them, before you're emotionally involved
73 pages. Fillable & Printable. Questions + journal space included. Instant download.
Frequently asked questions
Are all sales final?
Because these are digital files and download instantly, all sales are final. But if anything goes wrong on your end, please write to our team atcreatewithtash@outlook.com we will service your request.
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Your download link arrives right after checkout, so you can start reading tonight. Save the file somewhere you will find it again.
Can I print it, or do I have to read it on a screen?
Either. Every guide comes ready to print, and the questions guide also includes a fillable version you can type into on an iPad, phone, or computer. That one saves your answers and can be cleared and started over whenever you need a fresh copy.
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